Since we are talking about parenting this week-- I wanted to link you to some good footage from the movie 13, which I REALLY would like you all to see--
while this is a clip about the "making" of the movie- there is loads of good stuff in it-- pay very close attention at 5:15-- critical point in the movie!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEAc1k4BDkE